We didn’t expect to cause a scene. It was just a cute neighborhood event during our vacation in Brighton—a quirky Halloween-
style parade where locals encouraged dressing up as anything British. So naturally, my daughter went full royal in her Queen
Elizabeth outfit (corgis and all), and my son insisted on being her royal guard,
complete with the fuzzy bearskin hat and a very plastic rifle. People loved it.
Tourists clapped, Brits chuckled, someone even offered them tea biscuits on the spot.
It was lighthearted, silly, and honestly, one of my favorite parenting wins. Until we came across her.
We were near the end of the parade route, and the kids were laughing, basking in the attention as we walked through the
streets. Their excitement was infectious, and I couldn’t help but beam with pride at how into it they were. As we neared the
town square, I saw a woman standing on the corner, watching us. At first, she seemed like just another amused onlooker—
clapping along with everyone else—but her gaze lingered on us, sharp and piercing.
She was older, maybe in her sixties, wearing a heavy wool coat and a scarf that was wrapped too tightly around her neck. She
had an air of something about her, a certain coldness that set her apart from the rest of the warm, jovial crowd. As we
approached, she raised an eyebrow and looked at my daughter’s Queen Elizabeth costume first, then at my son’s royal guard
outfit. Her lips twitched, almost imperceptibly, but it was enough to make me feel a little uneasy.
“Excuse me,” she said, her voice unexpectedly stern.
I hesitated, unsure of what was coming, but I nodded politely. “Yes?”
“I hope you’re not teaching your children that the monarchy is something to be celebrated,
” she said, her tone not just critical but almost scornful.
I blinked, momentarily stunned. “Sorry, what?”
“The monarchy,” she repeated, as if it were the most obvious thing in the world.
“You’re encouraging them to dress up as figures who represent a system of power, privilege, and oppression.
Have you thought about what that actually means?”
I was taken aback. Of all the reactions I had anticipated, this wasn’t even close to one of them.
She was practically glaring at me now, her eyes filled with something that bordered on disdain.